Yes, You Want High Standards for Your Intimate Life
Whether you are in a committed partnership, navigating the single life, in a period of celibacy, or in an exploratory phase, it is vital to be intentional. This is about prioritizing quality, and consciously investing in experiences that truly feel nourishing and safe.
Your sexual energy is your most potent creative power, a vital part of your zest for life and your core vitality. The way you care for this aspect of yourself directly reflects the respect you have for your own life force.
How we treat a sexual partner, even in a casual encounter, sets a powerful precedent. The standards you hold for yourself become the standards you set for others. If you are in a phase of life where you are not ready to commit, are exploring your identity, or simply prefer more casual connections, you still have the power to create a sacred and safe space. By being an example of high standards—by treating your sexual partners with kindness, respect, and clear communication—you cultivate an environment where everyone feels safe, seen, and valued. This simple rule is a game-changer. When all participants in a sexual experience feel cared for and respected, the energy shifts. The vulnerability that can often be present in these moments is met with a sense of security. This is the ideal space for healthy sexual exploration, where you can be authentic without fear of judgment.
The deliberate act of treating our sexuality as sacred is the most direct path to personal sovereignty. When we understand our bodies, honour our own pleasure, and have full integrity over our desires, we become more resilient. We are less susceptible to manipulation and control, because we are connected to our own life force and have a strong sense of self-worth.
The Historical Blueprint of Control
Throughout history, countless institutions—from state governments to organized religions—have sought to control human sexuality. They have created rigid rules, taboos, and moral codes, especially for women. This is no accident. The very structure of any species is tied to its sexuality and reproduction, and the female menstrual cycle is at the very core of this. By controlling female bodies and sexuality, these institutions gained immense power over the entire social fabric, dictating who could reproduce, how families were formed, and who held power. A population that is disconnected from its own body and desires is easier to control. A woman who feels ashamed of her sexuality or menstrual cycle is easier to manipulate. This is the most effective and insidious form of control, and it's time we consciously dismantle it.
When we are respectful towards our sexual partners, we create a safe environment. When all participants feel safe, cared for, and respected, it allows for genuine vulnerability and authentic expression. This is the fertile ground from which personal power and collective consciousness can grow. Every time we choose to honour our bodies and our desires, we contribute to a collective shift. We are not just elevating our own well-being; we are actively challenging centuries of systemic control. We are reclaiming our power, our bodies, and our right to a life filled with zest, creativity, and authenticity.
So, start thinking about how your next Feeld date will look like.. :) Be creative and playful in your approach, but always ensure that respect and kindness lead the way. It is in these moments that genuine intimacy can flourish.